Friday, December 13, 2013

To help someone in need

Our human nature is to ignore things that make us uncomfortable in hopes that they go away. It bothers us when we see a homeless person standing asking for money or even just sitting minding his own business. We don't want him to interrupt our little world. We might drop a few coins in his cup or hand him a dollar and drive off. We often judge them in our minds or even out loud. Thinking they should get a job like we have. Or thinking that they will probably just buy booze or cigarettes so why should we give our hard earned money. We forget that it is only by the mercy of God that we have a job, that we have extra money. We will spend $20 on trash willingly but fight to let go of a dollar bill we would never miss and probably didn't even know we had. All the time the judged is probably just hoping, you won't pass him by. We don't stop, we are too busy stressing over holiday parties and where we will spend/waste hundreds of dollars on our spoiled kids while he only wants a sandwich! Or while our kid's friends are wailing to school with old clothes, too big and too cold. We are blessed beyond what our parents were and we hold it tighter and tighter while our brothers and sisters suffer right before our eyes. "But it's my money". Ignoring those people and children is impossible when you have someone reminding you all the time. I have a 4 year old very perceptive, very inquisitive and very compassionate daughter who doesn't miss a thing. Asking why he stands there with a sign, where his mom and dad are, who will buy him presents, where he sleeps, who keeps him warm, who loves him, does he have any friends. The list goes on. If you have kids that ask those questions, there is no turning away and hoping the light changes. It's real because we are called as Christians to love the least of these and look out for them. Feeding, clothing and helping those in need is what divine love is all about. How many pairs of shoes do you not wear anymore? ..... Oh, his only pair shows his toes,,,,  it's December. Feeding, clothing, loving. That's God's will. Showing them what true love is. Our own family needs us. Lay it all out on the table and force yourself to look at it, study it, hard. How can we as God loving, God fearing Christians go into His house and see a kid with tattered shoes falling off their feet or a coat too small or too thin for 20° weather and think 'poor kid' and never do anything about it?!?! We are called to help the needy and where better to start than at home. If We were fortunate enough we were all needy at one time and had to do without. Too bad for us of we were never in want of our next meal. We know what it's like although we let our brother or sister go hungry or cold. We think to ourselves that they should trust for their needs. They are. God brought it to our attention and we look away. If we see a need and able to help but don't we are disobeying the Word. 
Help somebody. Not just in December but every month of the year.

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