There is one thing that God and I have in common, we both hate divorce! Don't you parents get it? Don't you have a clue to what you are doing to your kids, what you are teaching them by your actions? you took a vow in a sacred ceremony before God and said 'till death do us part' and now it means nothing! Let's see, this is what you are telling your kids through your actions:
1. that vows to God don't have to be kept
2. adultery is ok
3. get married to whoever you want, you can always change your mind later
4. we care about ourselves more than you

I think you need to get a freakin clue. don't you realize that when you get divorced you are screwing up more than just your own lives? Did you forget that you had kids whos lives are being turned inside out? Think about someone else besides your own selfish ambitions!
......"Do you take this woman (whose hand you now hold) to be your lawfully-wedded wife, and will you love her, and cherish her, and be true and faithful to her--to support and comfort her in illness and in health, in adversity as well as in prosperity, from this day forward, and as long as you both shall live?" (I do)!
......."Do you take this man to be your lawfully-wedded husband, and will you love him, and obey him, and be true and faithful to him--to support and comfort him in times of illness and in health, in adversity and in prosperity, from this day forward, and as long as you both shall live?" (I do)!
Those whom God has joined together, let not anyone separate."

Hmmm i guess its just been so long that you figure the Lord in whose presence you made those vows has forgotten them. Well I'm sorry i have to be the one that tells you this, but HE HASN'T!!

“Mom and Dad are fighting as little rosie lies there crying, cause once again she’s overheard regrets of their mistake. Christmas bells are ringing, little roie’d leave them greaving, the gift she’d give her family would be the pills she’d take”

May seem too far off to be your kids.. but I guarentee you taht if you keep on the track that you are going.. your kids will very soon start thinking on this same path because you are leaving them.

You could hate each others guts for the rest of your life!! But think of your kids and stick it out for them. Give them the same chance that someone gave you! They deserve it and you don't have the right to take it away from them. God help you if you do!(The parents that this is to, will probably never read this, but maybe they will, God only knows)

in other news, I drew a layout of my yard and am sketching plans for our "New yard" for next year when our dilapidated pool comes down and we take over the yard to make it a beautiful garden!

JF